Group advises moms to choose partners wisely
Monday, February 1st, 2010Many of the stories carried here provide testimony to the growing incidents of boyfriends or
stepfathers abusing and/or killing their non-biological children. A group in Hamilton County, Ohio, wants to make mothers more aware of the danger that their new paramours may bring to their children.
Campaign targets child abuse by moms’ boyfriends
By Sharon Coolidge
scoolidge@enquirer.com
Kaylee Ann Schnurr, 18 months old; Christopher Beck, 1; Trustin Blue, 3; Milton Baker, 7; and Malakai Glenn, 1.
Moira Weir, director of Hamilton County Department of Job and Family Services, wants to make sure that no one forgets the names of these children or how they died.
They were beaten to death by their mothers’ boyfriends.
Beginning Monday, the agency is rolling out Choose Your Partner Carefully – a campaign of commercials, billboards and brochures aimed at alerting mothers and others in a child’s life to the warning signs.
“When mothers are choosing a partner, they are not just choosing for themselves, they are choosing for their children too,” Weir said. “Choosing the wrong partner can be, literally, deadly.
Of 17 Hamilton County children who died as a result of abuse since 2005, six were killed by their mother’s boyfriend, according to Job and Family Service case files.
In addition to Kaylee, Christopher, Trustin, Milton and Malakai, a 1-year-old Reading girl died last year. No charges have been filed in that case, but JFS believes the abuse was inflicted by her mother’s boyfriend.
That 35 percent rate is higher than the national average of 15 percent, as reported by the National Child Abuse and Neglect Data System.
“We know from unfortunate experience that just because someone loves a mom, it does not mean they love the child,” Weir said. “This campaign is focusing on a very specific and often deadly form of abuse.”
A handful of counties around the state, including Lorain and Franklin counties, have launched similar campaigns.
Weir said the number of deaths in Hamilton County demanded action.
Weir said the idea for the education campaign came up in 2006 after four such deaths in a little over a year.
The Ohio Department of Health reports that of the cases in which a child was killed due to child abuse or neglect, the mother’s partner was cited in 28 percent of cases.
In Hamilton County, 13.3 percent of all substantiated abuse and neglect cases in 2009 were attributed to the mother’s boyfriend or husband, who wasn’t related to the child.
Dr. Scott Bresler, a forensic psychologist at University of Cincinnati Department of Psychiatry and director of in-patient psychology at University Hospital, said in some cases, a child from a previous relationship is a reminder to the perpetrator that this individual was at one time not theirs, and in other cases the men resent raising or caring for a child that is not their own, he said.
“It’s scary, but we’re dealing with people who are psychopathic,” Bresler said. “These people walk through the world by a different set of rules. They don’t have a conscience.”
If the awareness campaign isn’t deterrent enough, Hamilton County Prosecutor Joe Deters’ track record shows there are criminal consequences. Deters feels so strongly about such cases that he helped change Ohio law to make killing a child under the age of 13 a death-penalty offense.
During his first stint as prosecutor Deters lobbied state lawmakers for the change after 12-year-old Matthew Richmond died from burns when his mother’s boyfriend held him in a tub of scalding water as punishment for soiling his pants and another man tortured and beat to death his girlfriend’s 15-month-old daughter, Star Hollingsworth.
In the five Hamilton County killings since 2005, four men are serving life sentence and a fifth was sentenced to death.
And mothers can be held accountable too, Deters said. In two of the cases, the child’s mother was also charged with child endangering for allowing the abuse to happen.
Tags: Christopher Beck, Kaylee Ann Schnurr, Malakai Glenn, Milton Baker, Trustin Blue
When Jeremy died earlier this year the coroner’s report indicated that he died of cancer, but in actuality he was murdered by his mother. The nine year-old had been diagnosed with non-Hodgkin’s lymphoma in 2006 and put on a regime of drugs and therapy that has a success rate of 90%. His mother, however, did not follow through the with prescribed treatment for her son and has been charged with attempted murder following his death.





